Active listening can make ASKaround a rich experience.
Give all your attention
Listen for feelings
Observe other cues, like body language
Be curious: ask for more detail, to go deeper
Stay quiet until you hear everything there is to hear
Ask: am I trying to tell my story instead of listening to theirs?
Own your own opinions and beliefs, start sentences with “I think…”, or “it seems to me”, or “In my opinion”
Ground your statements – that is, attach it to the group or source it belongs to. For instance: “In my culture…”, or “ many Australians have experienced…”